Narcissism and Object Constancy

eBook Title: Narcissism and Object Constancy: Why They Forget You When You're Not There

eBook Description:

Ever wonder how a narcissist can go from love-bombing you one day to ghosting or devaluing you the next? The answer lies in a psychological concept called object constancy—the ability to maintain an emotional connection with someone even when they’re not physically present or meeting immediate needs.

In Narcissism and Object Constancy, you'll explore how the narcissist’s emotional development was disrupted, leaving them without the capacity to hold onto a stable, internal sense of others. To the narcissist, out of sight often means out of mind—and worse, out of value.

This insightful guide reveals:

• What object constancy is and how it develops in healthy relationships

• Why narcissists split people into “all good” or “all bad”

• How this lack of constancy fuels cycles of idealization, devaluation, and discard

• The emotional whiplash victims experience in narcissistic relationships

• Practical tools to rebuild trust in your own reality and worth

Whether you’re recovering from narcissistic abuse or seeking to understand its psychological roots, this book offers a deeper awareness of the narcissist’s emotional limitations—and how to stop taking their disconnection personally.